hello friends…

  and readers.

i have been a shitty blogger.

yes i have.

and i'm sorry.

life has taken over…. well, more like work has taken over.

no time for much except to eat, sleep, work, gym and repeat.

but i'll try harder.

in the meantime…

here are some updates:

working out has done my body right.

my boss went on mat leave and I couldn't be happier about it.

i pretty much stopped drinking and my liver thanks me everyday.

and i'm still blissfully in love.

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till the next random post

I could live on your smile

I’ve been concentrating so much on what I don’t have and what isn’t going right in my life, that I’ve taken for granted everything that I do have and all the blessings in my life.

Self reminder: give thanks every day.  don’t forget.

I’m done wallowing in my own negativity.
I’m done being a victim.
I’m done being angry.
I’m done feeling sorry for myself.

I will no longer let the heaviness of it all sink further than it already has.

I am more than this.

…much more.

I am accountable for everything that comes my way… both negative and positive.

I am the hero and villain of my own story.

…

and I sure as hell don’t need saving.

what you don’t know about marriage

I had to share this…. it’s too good not to.

Enjoy.

http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf

only you are in control of what you like about you.

more than any day, I gotta remember this: